True success is self-referral – it is self-defined and self-created. Many of the people who we call “successful” in our modern society are actually being motivated by deep unconscious insecurities and a sense of lack within themselves.
The need to prove to the world that they are worthy or to feel whole, is at the core of many a high achiever’s motive for success.
Once we learn an effective strategy to discover and release our deepest fears and insecurities, we can begin to operate from our ideals as our motive.
This is a heart driven motivation where what we do will benefit our self and also the people around us.
It becomes a win-win way of living. Once you overcome insecurity and there is no need to “prove yourself”, it becomes unnecessary to own the biggest house on the block or to buy the latest model of super yacht.
The need to support a false sense of self-image is at the core of insecurity which is outer-referral. To be outer-referral is simply to think that happiness, success or love can be found in the world around you.
To be self-referral is to know that everything we seek is already within us: All the answers for life, all happiness, everything we need exists within us in our most fundamental state of being (true self).
Even though most intelligent people realize this is true – very few people are fully self-referral and actually live this way.
The few people who are, will be easily identifiable; they do not care about other people’s critical opinions of them; they think outside of the box and are very creative; they believe they are complete and whole unto themselves and do not need a relationship (although they may have one) or to get love from other people to feel whole. They will probably be well-loved by the people around them because of this fact. They enjoy sharing and caring about others. They are free spirited and usually have a unique and uncommon view on spirituality. Their presence inspires and uplifts others. They do not have fear or insecurity motivating them and have no need to prove anything to anyone.
There are degrees of this state and people who are very self-referral actually have an amazing radiance that is healing and freeing about them as they have a clear and direct connected to source awareness and people feel that radiance when in their presence.
The Self Discovery Techniques are supporting people to attain this long sought-after state of self-referral (enlightenment) much more quickly than previously thought possible. Explore and find out for yourself!
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The Self Discovery Life Mastery Process is the most direct, Evolutionary and Revolutionary Strategy – currently available – to rapidly accelerate Self and Life Mastery!
Copyright Rob James, Self Discovery Group LLC